Firstly, Hi I'm new. I guess it's a bit dull to go on about being a virgin blogger 'cause everyones been there once. But you know it's kinda all one and the same, about what I wanted to write about, so maybe some background would be cool.

So I'm attending the christening of my cousin's 7 month old little boy. It's Mother's Day. My cousin is 25; his sister is celebrating her 27th today, and she has her 2 year old girl with her. My husband is with me and most of the people there have seen us only once since our wedding a year and a half ago. So what do all these wonderful people ask all day? Of course, "when are you having a baby?" Or even, they think more politely, "It'll be you next!" Will it, says who!!

Yes, we're married. Yes, we own our own flat. Yes, I'm 27, he's 28. Yes, we are fairly well off. BUT... So this blog is born to get out all those buts that no one wants to listen to.

It's also to quietly voice that other side of me, the one that says Well, maybe. Because it's a battle. I'm a logical person, in the end one of them is going to win and maybe this blog is there to record just how long I can hold out :??: Obviously I can't go around telling people I'm interested, just our little secret.

I've seen blogs about trying, about having and about surviving the little screaming things, but never about avoiding - so maybe, just maybe you are in the same boat too...